Hmm, I wonder how best to greet you and let you know you have found the right place. And that is rather tricky: how to simultaneously make you feel welcome and respected, whilst also showing you that you are in the presence of a dominant woman. But as your search terms were around "intellectual domination for the discerning submissive" it seems you have been looking for me, so I guess that's moot.
The insightful may, upon reading thoroughly, identify that the tone of my words change throughout these pages. Bravo sir, you are correct: I write and adapt these pages, trying to capture in words the essence of what a healthy dominant/submissive relationship can be. Not an easy balancing act, let me tell you. (Considering this, it may be helpful to re-visit this site as the mood occurs to you.)
I think I'll start by showing you a glimpse into our world. I say ours because it is a partnership, my chap and I. I may be his dominant but we enjoy a symbiotic relationship, each meeting the other's needs: I am a strong, loving woman, striking in aspect, who both adores him and guides with a loving hand (sometimes metaphorically, sometimes literally), he in return adores me. That’s the thing about being adored. It’s delicious and delightfully morish. But, I digress. Welcome, please do come in. Let me show you around... as I write, the candles burn, the wind chuffs past the chimney and echoes down the hearth to my left. The leather chair squeaks gently as I shift from side to side, and the warmth of my sitting room is a delightful contrast to the bitterness of the winter’s day. It is cold, wet and grey outside, but in here it is wonderful. The clock on the mantle ticks, the wind bellows, and the noise of a single car drifts gently in. I sip coffee and admire my partner who lies bound, gagged, caged and plugged in front of me. He hears the keys tap as I write to you. At this very moment I find pleasure in tending to his need to be constrained, I his chatelaine and he my willing prisoner. Everything about this is divine, from the taste of coffee on my tongue to the sight of his eager submission. All my senses and needs are addressed, as I tend to his. He is perfectly cocooned, cosseted and cared-for as I read these very words to him. I have created this space and it is heavenly. Can you picture it…?
I am in the fortunate position of having time to ask the question ‘what do I want’? And the answer was reassuringly simple: I want more of what I have. I have a partner who willingly offers his submission, and the gratification I feel from his servitude is boundless. He, in-turn, finds equal pleasure: I make him feel safe, secure, and more than anything, deeply loved and exquisitely tortured. I share this with his willing consent, he taking pleasure in 'exposing' himself in this way. As our relationship evolved, he was surprised how his working life improved, finding himself having access to more internal resources. He describes new capabilities and feeling stronger, more energised and ready to ‘take on the world.’ Initially, he was astonished by this, but now has come to expect such benefits of a dominant/submissive relationship. I, however, having a background in clinical practice combined with experience of domination and control, expected this shift. I say this not with braggadocios intent, but to share the positive impact of a healthy dominant and submissive relationship.
I started this endeavour hoping it will help me find my happy, and in doing so I already find my happiness increased in writing to you. I imagine that as you’re still reading, there is a flicker of something here for you too. So please, take this as my 'calling card.' Read, explore, and when you're ready there's more behind the scenes, just contact me for the password.